Makatani akuwuluka m'maloto? Dziwani tanthauzo lake!

Maloto ndiye khomo lolowera ku chikumbumtima. Chilankhulo chophiphiritsa chachinsinsi chomwe munthu wathu wapamwamba amayesera kutilankhulana nafe payekha. Ndi chilankhulidwe chobisika, ngati chinsalu chotchinga mpweya. Bwanji ngati ali chinthu chomwe mukukumbukira kuchokera ku maloto anu? Onani zomwe zingatanthauze kupachika chinsalu, kugula nsalu yotchinga, kapena kungolota nsalu yoyera!

Zomwe zili m'maloto zimachokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana. Amalukidwa ndi zochitika zomwe zayiwalika kwa nthawi yayitali, zoponderezedwa kuchokera ku chidziwitso, zilakolako zoponderezedwa, zosowa, njira zamaganizidwe. M'maloto, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zilakolako zomwe sizigwirizana ndi miyambo yovomerezeka yovomerezeka, motero zimaponderezedwa pakudzuka. Mwa njira, sititchula izi mwangozi.

Makatani m'maloto ali ndi ntchito yofanana ndi yomwe timadziwa kuchokera ku zenizeni: amasonyeza kuti mukufuna kubisala chinachake kwa inu kapena anthu ena (kubisa - koma osati kupondereza). . Kodi mukufuna kudziwa zambiri? Yang'anani pa.

Ngati mukuwona kuti kufotokozeraku kungagwire ntchito kwa inu, komanso, yesetsani kukhala oona mtima nokha momwe mungathere. Zowonadi, moyo wowona mtima, wopanda kunyenga aliyense, ungakhale wovuta, ngakhale wosalingalirika, m’dzina la misonkhano yovomerezedwa, khalidwe m’banja la munthu kapena malo antchito. Njira yotseguka ndi yowona mtima si yophweka, koma yopindulitsa kwambiri. Ganizirani momwe mungapezere chitonthozo chanu: palibe kupsinjika maganizo, zomwe zimapangitsa kubisala, komanso kusiyana pakati pa zomwe mukuganiza ndi zomwe mukuwonetsera kunja, zomwe mukuchita kapena kulankhula. Pankhani yokhudzana ndi anthu, kulumikizana kwa malingaliro ndi mawu awo kukupatsani ulemu wokhala munthu woona, womasuka komanso wolunjika.

Makhalidwe abwinowa nthawi zonse amapindulitsa m'kupita kwanthawi! Kukhala tokha, kukhala otsimikiza ndizomwe zimatipangitsa ife kukhala anthu odalirika komanso omasuka mkati omwe safunika kubisala kumbuyo kwa chirichonse panthawi yogalamuka kapena momwemo!

limatanthauzira ngati chisonyezero cha kulakalaka banja. Masiku ano, m'nyumba zathu zamakono, timapachika makatani nthawi zambiri kuposa kale.

Ndipo apa tifika pa mfundo. Pali mabuku ambiri amaloto, otanthauzira azizindikiro, komanso ma archetypes odziwika bwino - ndiko kuti, ma prototypes - amunthu, chochitika, mutu kapena chitsanzo. Koma pambali pa malangizowa, munthu aliyense ali ndi dikishonale yake yamaloto, chifukwa mayanjano ake ndi malo, chinthu kapena munthu akhoza kukhala chinsinsi chomvetsetsa tanthauzo la maloto, ngakhale atakhala anu.

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Mosakayikira, imodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zamaloto ndikukopa chidwi pamipata yamoyo yomwe mwaphonya yomwe simukuzindikiranso mwachidwi. Ngati muwerenga molondola zizindikiro zogona kapena zojambulidwa - mwachitsanzo, imodzi - mudzamva kuti ali ndi foni yolimba. Zimalimbikitsidwa kwambiri ngati malotowo abwerezedwa, ndiye kuti ziyenera kumveka ngati chionetsero chotsutsana ndi kuchepa kwakukulu kwa kuthekera kwanu.

Pamapeto pake, pakhoza kukhala kufotokozera kocheperako: bwanji ngati mwangosintha makatani anu, kapena mukukonzekera kugula makatani atsopano, kuchotsa akale, kapena kuyesa kalembedwe kosiyana. Zochitika zotere, zotengedwa momveka bwino m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi zina zimawonekeranso. Otola bowa amalota, ndipo mkwatibwi amakwatiwa, chifukwa malingaliro awo ndi zochita zawo zenizeni zimakhazikika pamitu imeneyi. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kulabadira maloto, chifukwa kuwamvetsetsa kumatha kusintha moyo wanu kukhala wabwino.

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