Chilonda - tanthauzo la kugona

Chilonda Chomasulira Maloto

Chilonda m'maloto ndi chizindikiro cha chisoni, mkwiyo ndi kuvutika. Chilonda chatsopano ndi choboola ndi chiwonetsero cha zowawa zosatha ndi milandu yosathetsedwa, ndipo bala lomwe lapola limapereka uthenga wabwino ndikulonjeza chiyembekezo chabwino chamtsogolo. Zochitika zomvetsa chisoni zomwe zachitika m'moyo wanu pamapeto pake zidzatha, ndipo mudzamasuka ku nkhawa. Maloto okhudza bala amathanso kuwonetsa zochitika zenizeni zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu. Wina akhoza kukupwetekani, koma mulibe kulimba mtima kuwauza za izo. Chilonda chimasonyezanso kuvutika kwakuthupi ndi m’maganizo. Maloto ndi chilimbikitso chopewa mikangano yonse m'moyo yomwe imayambitsa munthu kupweteka kosafunikira komanso kuvutika.

kuti muwone - pambuyo pazovuta zaposachedwa, ganizirani ngati kuli bwino kusintha china chake m'moyo wanu ndipo, pomaliza, pita patsogolo

kukhala ndi bala mavuto adzaphimba moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku

kukhumudwitsa wina - mudzabwezera wina chifukwa cha zolakwa zomwe adachita m'mbuyomu

kuvulazidwa ndi winawake - adani anu sangakugonjetseni mpaka kumapeto, adzakumana nanu theka mpaka atakwaniritsa cholinga chawo

chithuza chilonda - chifukwa cha ubwino wanu, muyenera kuthetsa mikangano yakale ndi wina, chifukwa ikhoza kuyambitsa mikangano yambiri ndi mikangano posachedwa.

mafinya amatuluka pabala - mudzakhudzidwa ndi kupanda chilungamo kwakukulu kapena mudzasiyana ndi wina wapamtima

magazi kuchokera pachilonda - mudzafika patali m'moyo wanu zomwe zidzakhala zovuta kuti otsutsa anu akwaniritse

Lamlungu - zopinga zanu zamkati zimatsegulira njira yofikira ku cholinga chanu, simungapambane ngati simukudutsa ndikukhala ololera.

chakuya - chepetsani pang'ono, chifukwa simungathe kupita patsogolo, chifukwa kutopa kungapangitse kuchepa kwa chitetezo chanu komanso ntchito yochepa.

zozama komanso zachiphamaso - kulephera kwakanthawi kumasokoneza moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku

zipsera - mudzamasulidwa ku nkhawa zomwe zasokoneza kwa nthawi yayitali

kukhumudwitsa wina - mudzasokoneza zolinga za munthu, zomwe mudzadzipeza nokha pamoto wotsutsa

bandeji, bandeji bala - mudzabisa zowawa zanu mpaka wina atazipeza ndikukuthandizani kuthana nazo

kumanga bala la munthu Zomwe sizikugwira ntchito kwa inu m'moyo wanu zidzabweretsa chisangalalo m'moyo wanu waukadaulo.

Maloto okhudza bala ngati chisonyezero cha zochitika zenizeni:

Ngati mukulimbana ndi mabala akuthupi m'moyo wanu wodzuka, malotowo ndi chilimbikitso chotenga nthawi yokwanira kuti muwachiritse. Izi zili choncho chifukwa kucheza msanga ndi anzanu kapena kupita kuntchito kungakhudze thanzi lanu. Choncho musade nkhawa, chifukwa padzakhala nthawi yopuma.

Chilonda ngati chizindikiro cha kugonana:

Malinga ndi mabuku ambiri a maloto, chilonda chakuthupi ndi chizindikiro cha kugonana chifukwa cha magazi omwe awonekera mozungulira. Mtundu wofiira wa magazi umagwirizanitsidwa ndi chikondi, chikondi, chikhumbo ndi malingaliro okondwa, choncho n'zovuta kuti tisagwirizane nawo ndi chizindikiro cha chikhalidwe chonyansa.

Lota za bala ngati chizindikiro cha zowawa ndi zowawa:

Chilonda chingakhalenso chisonyezero cha kuvutika maganizo. Nthawi zambiri, zimawoneka m'maloto mwa anthu omwe m'moyo weniweni mwadzidzidzi adaganiza zokumba mabala akale. Ngakhale malingaliro nthawi zambiri amasanduka pinki ndi otumbululuka patali, zimakhala zovuta kuiwala mukabwerera ku zakale. Mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa umene timadzipezamo kaŵirikaŵiri umakhala chotulukapo cha zosankha zolakwika ndi zosankha zimene zingasokoneze mwadzidzidzi kalongosoledwe kakale ka moyo wathu.