Kudulidwa m'maloto kungatanthauze kutayika kwa chinthu chofunikira m'moyo, nkhawa, kulephera kudziletsa komanso kuganizira za kubwereranso m'moyo. Komanso ndi chizindikiro cha kupanda chilungamo, kukhumudwa ndi chisoni. Kudulidwa m'maloto nthawi zambiri kumakhala konyansa, makamaka kwa amayi akamasiyana ndi wokondedwa. Maloto odulidwa amaimira matalente osagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi kutaya kosatha, komanso kumva kukhumudwa ndi kufooka. Ndi bwino kusamala kuti musakumane ndi zotayika pamoyo wanu zomwe zikanapewedwa pochita zinthu zoyenera.
Ngati mukulota zimenezo mwadula miyendondiye ndikuwonetsetsa m'moyo wa matalente osagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi kutayika kosalekeza, kumva chisoni ndi kupsinjika maganizo, kusowa thandizo kosalekeza.
Kudulidwa mkono m'maloto, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kusowa kwa chilimbikitso cha moyo, kusowa thandizo ndi kupanga zisankho zopanda pake.
Mukalota za kudula mwendo zikutanthauza kuti anthu ena amangokuchititsani misala ndipo mumathamangirabe malire omwe amakulepheretsani kupita patsogolo.
kudulidwa chifukwa cha matenda amachenjeza za zoopsa, amafuna chisamaliro chapadera, makamaka pazochitika zomwe sizikumveka bwino.
Izi ndi za kudulidwa ziwalo pa nthawi ya nkhondo kaŵirikaŵiri zimabweretsa zikumbukiro za nthaŵi zoipa, pamene zinthu zosavuta zinkawoneka kukhala zovuta, ndipo chipambano chikhoza kulota.
Kudula ziwalo pambuyo pa kuukira kwa nyama Ichi ndi chizindikiro kuti simuyenera kuda nkhawa ndi miseche caustic, chifukwa anthu akhala ndi chidwi tsogolo la anansi awo.
Siyani Mumakonda