Chizindikiro cha kamba. Kodi Fuluwo amaimira chiyani?

Chizindikiro cha kamba chimalumikizidwa ndi zinthu monga kulimbikira, kulimba mtima komanso moyo wautali.

Ngati kamba ikuwoneka m'moyo wanu, ndi nthawi yoti muchepetse. Choncho musamaope kuyenda mwa inu nokha zinthu zikakuvutani.

Chizindikiro cha kamba chimakuphunzitsani kuti m'moyo simuyenera kuyang'ana mipata yomwe mwaphonya, koma zolinga zanu ndi njira zomwe mungakwaniritsire.

Muyenera kudzimasula nokha ku chilichonse chomwe chimachepetsa kupita patsogolo kwanu, ndikuyiwala zizolowezi zanu zoyipa ndi zoyipa zomwe zili m'moyo wanu ngati mukufuna kupitiliza kutsata zolinga zanu.

Nthawi zonse simudzafika kwa iwo mwachangu momwe mukufunira, choncho khalani omasuka, khalani ndi nthawi, ndipo khalani olimbikira. Kotero zingatenge nthawi yaitali kuti mufike kumene mukufuna, koma iyi ndi njira yotetezeka kwambiri yokafika kumeneko.

Kamba amakukumbutsani kuti kuthamangira ndi upangiri woyipa ndikuti kuyesa kudumpha masitepe ndikupita mwachangu kumatha kubweretsa zolakwika ndikuphonya mwayi. Ndi bwino kusangalala ndi kukwera ndi kuchita zinthu pa liwiro lanu.

Kanyama kakang'ono kameneka ndi chizindikiro chomwe chimakuwongolerani pakukula kwanu komanso kumapereka maphunziro amoyo pamene mukuyenda mosiyanasiyana.

Zizindikiro za kamba zimalimbikitsanso kuti mudziteteze nokha ndi omwe mumawakonda. Ngati mukumva kuti mukuwopsezedwa, kumbukirani kuti kubwereranso nthawi yabwino kungakhale kupambana.

Zisonkhezero zoipa ndi mphamvu zoipa zimakhalapo nthawi zonse ndipo panthawi ina akhoza kukumana panjira yanu. Panthawi imeneyi yosinkhasinkha ndi kuyembekezera, igwiritseni ntchito kuti mupeze nzeru ndi mphamvu zomwe mukufunikira kuti mupite patsogolo.

Phunzirani kusangalala ndi ulendo ndi mphatso zomwe mumalandira panjira. Munthawi zovuta, tengani nkhaniyi modekha ndikuleza mtima: posachedwa, zonse zibwerera mwakale. Ndiye idzakhala nthawi yotuluka mu chipolopolo chanu ndikupitiriza ulendo wanu.

Kodi mumafanana ndi kamba? Mbali zabwino ndi zoipa za umunthu wanu

Ngati muli pafupi ndi kamba, ndiye kuti muli ndi maganizo odekha, ndipo kukhwima kwanu ndi chidziwitso chanu ndi chapamwamba kuposa zaka zanu zakubadwa.

Kuleza mtima, mphamvu ndi kulimba ndi makhalidwe omwe amakufotokozerani. Mumateteza kwambiri omwe mumawakonda ndipo muli ndi chikhalidwe cholingalira.

Koma khalidwe labata ndi lamtendere limeneli limakulimbikitsani kupewa mikangano, yomwe nthawi zina ingakhale yoipa, chifukwa mumazengereza kuthetsa mavuto m’malo mokumana nawo.

Mumadziwa kuyamba, koma simumaliza bwino. Nthawi zina mumamva kuti muli m'malo omwe simungatulukemo, ndipo moyo wanu umakhala wokhazikika.

Mukakhala mumkhalidwe wowopsa, wosamasuka, kapena wowopseza, mumabwerera m'chipolopolo chanu. Zimakuvutani kumasuka kwa ena mutamva zakukhosi kwanu.

Muphunzirapo chiyani pa kamba?

Kamba amakuphunzitsani kukhala owona panjira yanu. Bwerani ndi zisankho zanu ndi zisankho zanu ndikusiya chilichonse chomwe chimakulepheretsani.

Ndikofunika kuti musafike kwinakwake mwachangu, koma kudziwa komwe mukupita. Ngati mukudziwa tsogolo lanu, ngakhale msewu uli wautali kapena waufupi: mudzafika komwe mukupita. Ndipo izi ndi zochuluka kuposa momwe ambiri anganene.