Sexual script - Mitundu, Zadzidzidzi, Kupatukana kwa Akazi, Kugonana Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha

Kalata yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi njira yodziwika bwino ndi anthu ndipo imaperekedwa kwa ana ndi akuluakulu a chikhalidwe cha anthu monga makolo, aphunzitsi, tchalitchi, kapena mawailesi. Zolemba zogonana zimakhala ndi zikhumbo zina zogonana, zongopeka, komanso machitidwe ogonana. Kodi muyenera kudziwa chiyani za zolemba zogonana?

1. Kodi script yogonana ndi chiyani?

Sexy Scenario (achigololo zochitika) ndi machitidwe ovomerezeka ovomerezeka pokhudzana ndi kugonana pakati pa anthu. Malingana ndi chiphunzitsochi, palibe chilakolako chogonana chapadziko lonse ndipo khalidwe la kugonana liyenera kumveka ngati malemba omwe amaphunzitsidwa ndi anthu enieni.

Lingaliro la zolemba zogonana limaphatikizapo nkhani monga kugonana, malingaliro ogonana, khalidwe logonana, zilakolako, ndi kudzidziwitsa nokha pa nkhani ya kugonana. Chiphunzitso cha zochitika yoperekedwa ndi akatswiri a chikhalidwe cha anthu John H. Gagnon ndi William Simon m'buku la 1973 lotchedwa Sexual Behavior: The Social Sources of Human Sexuality.

2. Mitundu ya zochitika zogonana

Pali magulu atatu akuluakulu a zolembera:

• chikhalidwe zochitika ndi zochitika zoperekedwa ndi akuluakulu a chikhalidwe cha anthu (makolo, aphunzitsi, tchalitchi, sayansi kapena TV),
• zochitika za anthu - izi ndi zotsatira za kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe, zochitikazi zimatengedwa chifukwa cha kuyanjana pakati pa ogonana nawo,
• script payekha - malamulo oyendetsera khalidwe la kugonana la anthu omwe amayamba chifukwa cha zochitika za chikhalidwe ndi zochitika zawo zakugonana kuyambira kale.

3. Kupanga zolemba zogonana

Zolemba zogonana zimakula mwa munthu m'zaka makumi awiri zoyambirira za moyo, ndipo gawo lofunika kwambiri ndilo unyamata. Atangobadwa, mwanayo sadziwa malamulo aliwonse okhudzana ndi kugonana, zomwe zimafotokozedwa ndi chidwi chamtsogolo pamutuwu, makamaka paunyamata.

Akuluakulu akhazikitsa kale mayankho okhudzana ndi kugonana, koma zinthu zina za script zikhoza kuwoneka kale mwa ana aang'ono omwe sanayambe kuyankhula. Zochitika zogonana zimapangidwa chifukwa cha zithunzi kapena zinthu zomwe zingawoneke ngati zolimbikitsa kugonana.

Malingaliro amawapinda munkhani zamitundumitundu kapena zongopeka zomwe zimakhalabe ngati zolemba kwa moyo wanu wonse. Zolemba zogonana za munthu aliyense zimakhala ndi mayanjano ndi zizindikiro zosiyana pang'ono, monga zimapangidwira chifukwa cha zochitika zosiyanasiyana ndi zosiyana za TV, makolo ndi aphunzitsi paubwana ndi unyamata.

4. Gulu la zochitika zogonana ndi ogonana nawo

Zochitika zogonana zimagawidwa kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso molingana ndi jenda la bwenzi. kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Malingana ndi munthuyo, zochitika za kugonana zingaphatikizepo akatswiri a mafilimu, oimba, oimba, ovina, ndi anthu omwe ali ndi ndale.

Malingaliro akugonana angaphatikizepo anthu a nthawi imodzi kapena mtundu wosiyana kotheratu. Anthu ena amalota bwenzi lokhazikika, ena amakonda kusintha pafupipafupi m'moyo wawo wogonana.

Palinso anthu amene amagonana ndi achibale awo, ngakhale kuti kugonana kwa pachibale kumasalidwa m’madera ambiri.

Zochitika zogonana nthawi zina zimalimbikitsa kuphwanya malamulo kapena malamulo chifukwa zimakhudzana ndi ana kapena kugonana popanda chilolezo cha wokondedwa. Zolemba zotere zimatchedwa akubwera.

Nthawi zambiri, zochitika zenizeni zaubwana (monga chilango chokhazikika) zimakula kukhala chikondi cha masochism kapena sadism, zinthu zenizeni, manja, ziwalo za thupi, kunena mawu ena, kapena kupezeka kwa anthu ena.

4.1. kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngati script yogonana

Ofufuza ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumakula m'zaka makumi awiri zoyambirira za moyo. Komabe, zatsimikiziridwa kuti kulera ana achigololo maanja sizimakhudza maganizo awo okhudzana ndi kugonana.

Anthu ambiri akamaona nkhani zokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amafuna kuzisintha n’kuzisintha kukhala mayankho ena okhudza kugonana, monga kukonda amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Ena amakhulupirira kuti izi ndizotheka pambuyo pa kukhazikitsidwa kwa ntchito pa zolemba zomwe muli nazo ndikuwongolera khalidwe lanu.

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