Sexual Matching - Ndi milingo yanji yofananira pogonana?

Chiyambi chilichonse cha ubale sichidziwika bwino. kugonana ndi msonkhano wa zibwenzi, kawirikawiri amasiyana makhalidwe a mtundu uwu wa umunthu, zinachitikira, analeredwa ndi makhalidwe.

Kukwaniritsa kugonana ndi vuto lalikulu komanso kupambana kwakukulu, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndilo maziko a kupitiriza kukhala pamodzi. Kugonana kumawonjezera mwayi chitukuko cha chikondi ndipo imabweretsa mitundu yambiri ku imvi - nthawi zina - mkati mwa sabata. Kodi milingo yogwirizana ndi kugonana ndi yotani?

1. Kugwirizana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi - Milingo

Kodi mungatchule mwachindunji misinkhu yoyenera kugonana - thupi, chilakolako, maganizo, mawu ndi kufunika.

1.1. Sex Match - Mulingo Wathupi

Ndiko kutengera kugonana malinga ndi chikhalidwe cha kugonana komanso kumverana wina ndi mzake. Kuonjezera apo, ndikofunikira kukhala okopa kwa wina ndi mzake, kukhumbira ndi kuvomereza thupi lanu. Pogonana mawonekedwe athupi ndi mgwirizano wa machitidwe ogonana komanso kukhutitsidwa. Mabanja ena amakwanitsa kusintha kwa kugonana kuyambira pachiyambi, ena mwa kuphunzira pang'onopang'ono.

1.2. Machesi achigololo - mulingo wachiwerewere komanso wowoneka bwino

Mulingo wokwanira pakugonana uku makamaka wokhudza kuwonana wina ndi mnzake monga "okondedwa", "abwino" mitundu yachimuna kapena ukazi. Izi kukondana maonekedwe, moyo, mayendedwe, komanso makhalidwe a maganizo, nthabwala, etc. Kupyolera mu kusintha kwa kugonana m'madera awa, chilakolako champhamvu ndipo motero kukhutira pokhala pamodzi kungadzutse.

Mulingo Wanzeru Wakutsata Kugonana kumatanthauza kumverana wina ndi mzake. Ndiko kutha kuyembekezera ziyembekezo za munthu wina. Izi zimachitika popanda kugwiritsa ntchito mawu. Kumverera kotereku kumakhala kofanana kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndikuwongolera chidwi chawo osati pazosowa zawo zokha, komanso zomwe zimachitika mnzawo. Kumvetsetsa pamlingo uwu wamakalata ogonana kumapangitsa kuti pakhale mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri. Izi mgwirizano, ndiko kuti, kuganizira ubwino wa munthu wina.

1.3. Sex Match - Mulingo Wamalingaliro

Kupanda kutero, mulingo woterewu wosinthika pakugonana ungatanthauzidwe ngati momwe mungasangalalire, nyengo yamalingaliro, kapena zina zofananira. Uwu ndi mulingo wofanana wa kulimba komanso kusiyanasiyana kwamalingaliro. Osati nthawi zonse mayendedwe tilinazo zofanana.

Mwachitsanzo, kwa munthu mmodzi, kusangalatsidwa ndi chisangalalo kumafanana ndi chikondi cha ecstasy kapena nirvana, kwa wina ndi mkhalidwe wokhutira pang'ono. Komabe, muubwenzi wautali komanso wopambana, pakapita nthawi, okwatirana amalumikizana wina ndi mzake, ndipo maiko awo amalingaliro, amagwirizanitsa, ndiko kuti, makalata ogonana amayamba.

1.4. Sex Match - Mulingo Wamawu ndi Makhalidwe

Mu chikhalidwe chathu mulingo wamawu wogwirizana ndi kugonana mwatsoka ndi osatukuka. Mfundo imeneyi imakhudzidwa makamaka ndi kusowa kwa mawu oyenera odzutsa chilakolako. Tinganene kuti mwina tili ndi mawu akatswiri otengedwa mwachindunji m'mabuku ofotokozera kapena zofalitsa zasayansi, kapena timagwiritsa ntchito mawu otukwana ndi achikale. Choncho, anthu ambiri zimawavuta kufotokoza za kugonana kwawo.

Zovuta pamlingo uwu wotengera kugonana zitha kutchedwanso kucheza panthawi yogonana ndi kukambirana mwatsatanetsatane za mutu wa kulankhulana (zokhudza malo oyenera pabedi, terminology, etc.), zomwe zingalepheretse okondedwa a chikhalidwe cha ubwenzi, chinsinsi ndi zokoma. Kugonana pakamwa ndi vuto lalikulu kwa maanja ambiri.

Kufananiza jenda pamlingo wa zikhulupiliro zolinga zofanana ndi tanthauzo la kugonana. Ngati onse awiri amagwirizanitsa kugonana ndi chikondi, chimwemwe ndi chitukuko chaumwini, tinganene kuti adzawapatsa mtengo womwewo. Kugonana kungagwirizanenso ndi zosangalatsa zokha, kukhutiritsa zosoŵa za munthu, kapena kukwaniritsa zokhumba zake.

Pamlingo wozama, kusintha kwa kugonana ndi njira yowonetsera, chikondi, ndi mgwirizano. Kuya mlingo wa chidziwitso chogonana, m’pamenenso amakulitsa mkhalidwe wa kugonana kwa okondana.

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Nkhani idawunikiridwa ndi katswiri:

Anna Belous

Katswiri wa zamaganizo, psychotherapist, mphunzitsi waumwini.