Kugonana - zimayambitsa, chiwerewere cha amayi ndi abambo, mbiri yakale

Uhule ndi kusintha kwafupipafupi kwa anthu ogonana nawo, zomwe zimatchedwa ulendo wausiku umodzi kapena kuposerapo, osayesa kumanga ubale kapena ubale. Nthawi zambiri chiwerewere chimasonyezedwa m’mafilimu ndi m’maprogramu a pa TV, mmene anthu amaonera zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Kodi muyenera kudziwa chiyani za chiwerewere?

1. Kodi chiwerewere ndi chiyani?

Uhule (chiwerewere) kutanthauza kugonana ndi zibwenzi zomwe zimakonda kusintha pafupipafupi. Alibe zomverera ndipo amangokwaniritsa zosowa za kugonana popanda kulowa muubwenzi kapena maubwenzi ozama.

Nthawi zambiri chiwerewere chimapezeka mwa osakwatiwa, koma zimachitikanso ubale wotseguka. Mitundu yolumikizana iyi imatha kulumikizidwa ndi chizolowezi chogonana kapena kusokonezeka kwamalingaliro.

2. Zifukwa za chiwerewere

Zinthu zomwe zingayambitse kapena zosayambitsa chiwerewere ndi izi:

• kudziyang'anira pansi,
• kusakhwima maganizo,
• kuvutika kulimbana ndi nkhawa
• kugonana koyipa
• zowawa zakale,
• vuto lofotokoza zakukhosi
• kukonzekera kubwezera mipikisano yachikondi,
• kuopa maubwenzi
• kwambiri libido
• kufuna kuyambiranso kugonana,
• kufunitsitsa kudziyesa.

Ofufuza ena amakhulupirira kuti chiwerewere chingakhale njira yodziyesera nokha pabedi ndikupeza kudzidalira. Nthawi zina amuna amakumana ndi vuto lodziwa akazi amitundu ndi misinkhu yosiyanasiyana.

Anthu ena amati kugonana pafupipafupi ndi anthu osiyanasiyana kumabwera chifukwa chopeza mnzawo wamaloto awo. Komabe, kaŵirikaŵiri, chisembwere ndi njira yothaŵa mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku, kupsinjika maganizo kosafunikira ndi zowawa zakale.

3. Kugonana kwa amayi ndi abambo

Tsoka ilo, malingaliro a chiwerewere amasiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Amayi omwe amagonana pafupipafupi amawonedwa kuti ndi olakwika ndipo amadziwika kuti ali ndi zovuta zingapo monga chizolowezi chogonana.

Kumbali ina, abambo omwe amasintha okondedwa awo nthawi zonse satsutsidwa ndi anthu ndipo amalandila ulemu chifukwa cha luso lawo komanso kuthekera kwawo kupereka upangiri.

Amayi nthawi zambiri amamva mawu otukwana komanso otukwana, ndipo malo omwe amakhala akuwonetsa kusamvetsetsa kufunikira kogonana popanda kuchita nawo maubwenzi ozama. Osatengera kusintha kwa kugonana Anthu ambiri amaonabe chiwerewere cha akazi kukhala chochititsa manyazi komanso umboni wa kukana mfundo za makhalidwe abwino.

W mabungwe osamala Kugonana ndi anthu ambiri kumawonedwa mwachipongwe chifukwa kumapangitsa kukhala kosatheka kumanga maubwenzi olimba ndikulera ana pamodzi.

4. Mbiri ya chiwerewere

Lingaliro la chiwerewere lasintha pakapita nthawi. Kale (makamaka ku Greece, Rome, India ndi China), chiwerewere chinkaonedwa kuti ndi chilengedwe chonse kwa amuna. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mkaziyo sakanatha kugonana mpaka tsiku laukwati, ndiyeno ayenera kukhala wokhulupirika kwa mwamuna wake.

Amuna okwatirana amatha kugonana ndi aliyense, ngakhale wosankhidwa wawo akutsutsana nazo. Izi zafotokozedwa, makamaka, mu Nthano zachi Greekkumene Odysseus adapereka nthawi zambiri, ndipo Penelope adazipeza mwachilengedwe, ngakhale kuti iye mwiniyo adayenera kukhala wokhulupirika.

Zolakwa za anthu zinali kunyalanyazidwa ngati anali ndi mwana wamwamuna, apo ayi zikanatsutsidwa poyera. M'zaka mazana zotsatira, chiwerewere chinaliponso, koma sichidziwika bwino.

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