Petting - ndi chiyani komanso momwe mungakulire?

Kuweta ndi njira yogonana yomwe imakupatsani mwayi wosangalala komanso kukhutitsidwa, zofanana kwambiri ndi zomwe timakumana nazo pogonana. Kuweta kuyenera kusangalatsana nthawi zonse komanso kukhala masewera kwa onse awiri. Izi nthawi zambiri zimatsogolera kugonana kwenikweni.

1. Kuweta ndi chiyani

Kugonana ndi njira yogonana yomwe imaphatikizapo kupsopsonana, kusisita, ndi kugwirana maliseche. Ili ndilo khalidwe lomwe limapangitsa nthawi yomweyo kutulutsa kukangana kwa kugonana.

Kuweta sikuyenera kutha ndi kugonana, kumakondweretsa okondedwa onse, komanso ndi chitsimikizo chothetsera vuto la kugonana. Kuweta ndi kudziwana thupi la wina ndi mzake komanso momwe wokondedwayo amachitira ndi chilakolako chogonana.

2. Kuweta ndi kutenga mimba

Ofufuza za kugonana amavomereza kuti ndi mtundu wa khalidwe la kugonana momwe sizingatheke kutenga mimba. Zoonadi, malinga ngati n’zotheka kutulutsa umuna, umuna sulowa m’njira yoberekera ya mkazi ndipo kusisita sikuthera m’kugonana.

Achinyamata ayenera kudziwa kuti kutenga mimba chifukwa choweta sikutheka, komabe. Chifukwa cha kusowa kwa chiwopsezo cha mimba, kubetcherana kumaperekedwa nthawi zambiri chithandizo ndi sexologist monga chothandizira kudzutsidwa pakugonana mwa anthu omwe samachipeza mwachangu - amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo.

Ngakhale kuti kupatsirana sikutha ndi kugonana, sikufuna udindo wokha, komanso kuzindikira ndi kukhwima. Kuweta ndi njira yodziwira thupi lanu, chifukwa kugwirana ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pomanga ubale pakati pa okondedwa. Kuweta kumapereka mwayi wotsegulirana matupi a wina ndi mnzake, kusangalatsana, komanso kumanga malingaliro otetezeka. Akatswiri amakhulupirira kuti yankho ili si la anthu omwe alibe chidziwitso chochepa chogonana, komanso anthu odziwa zambiri omwe akufuna kusiyanitsa miyoyo yawo.

Musadabwe kuti kupatsirana ndi chiyani kapena kugwirana kotani. Pakuweta, ndikofunikira kuti muthane ndi zoletsa zonse ndi zovuta, okondedwa amatsegulirana wina ndi mnzake, zomwe zimawonetsedwanso mokhutira kwathunthu ndi ubalewo. Kuweta kumatanthauza kumanga ubale wapamtima, womwe ndi wamtengo wapatali ngati okwatirana aganiza zogonana.

3. Kodi kuchita kubetcherana?

Achinyamata nthawi zambiri amadabwa kuti kubeta ndi chiyani komanso momwe amakulira. Amadabwa ngati pali kugwirizana pakati pa mimba ndi kubeta. Komabe, mayankho ake ndi osavuta komanso momwe angasinthire ndi mwachilengedwe.

Pali mitundu yambiri yoweta yomwe ingabweretse wokondedwa wanu ku orgasm. Kuweta ndi kukondoweza komwe kumachitika kawirikawiri ndi manja, pakamwa, ndi lilime. Ngakhale mmodzi mawonekedwe a weasel Sizovuta, sikophweka kubweretsa wokondedwa ku orgasm yodzaza chifukwa chogwirana, choncho yesani njira zosiyanasiyana zogona. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ndi malo ati pathupi omwe angakusangalatseni panthawi ya caress ndi kukondoweza panthawi ya caress. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndizofunika kwambiri kudziwana ndi thupi la mnzanu.

Kuweta nthawi zambiri kumayamba ndi kugwirana, ndipo sikuyenera kukhala kukondoweza maliseche, kubetcherana kumatha kukhala kukhudza kwachitsanzo.

Nthawi zina kukhudza wamba kumakhala kokwanira kuputa. kudzutsidwa kwa wokondedwa. Kukhudza kotereku kumatha kukhala kowoneratu koyenera. Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zogwirizira, koma ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti kubetcherana sikuyenera kuyamba ndi kusisita madera omwe ali ndi erogenous kwambiri pathupi kuti atalikitse chisangalalo.

Mukhoza kuyamba ndi mawu achikondi, kugwirana manja. Mutha kuyang'ana pamutu, maso, makutu ndi khosi. Kumbuyo kwa mutu ndi khosi ndi zina mwa madera ovuta kwambiri a thupi. Milomo idzagwira ntchito yofunikira. Akatswiri ofufuza za kugonana amanena kuti njira yabwino yosisita kuti mukwaniritse kugonana kokwanira ndikutalikitsa ndikuyamba kudutsa maliseche. Palibe chomwe chimasangalatsa kuposa kudziwa kuti titha kumvera ndikuzindikira zosowa za okondedwa athu pakugonana.

Musadikire kuti muwone dokotala. Pezani mwayi wokambirana ndi akatswiri ochokera ku Poland konse lero ku abcZdrowie Pezani dokotala.

Nkhani idawunikiridwa ndi katswiri:

Stanislav Dulko, MD, PhD

Sexologist. Membala wa Board wa Polish Society of Sexologists.