Jenda m'maganizo - ndi chiyani, mapangidwe a jenda

Zitha kuwoneka kuti tili ndi jenda limodzi - wamkazi, wamwamuna. Kugawanika kosavuta kumeneku sikuli koonekeratu pamene mukuwona kuti ofufuza amasiyanitsa amuna ndi akazi khumi!

Aliyense wa ife ali ndi: chromosomal (genotypic) kugonana, kugonana kwa galu, kugonana kwa intragenital, kugonana kwakunja, phenotypic, mahomoni, kagayidwe kachakudya, chikhalidwe, ubongo ndi kugonana kwamaganizo.

1. Jenda m'maganizo - ndi chiyani?

Kugonana m'maganizo, jenda, kumapangidwa ndi anthu komanso chikhalidwe kudziwika kuti ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Malinga ndi World Health Organization, awa ndi maudindo, makhalidwe, zochita ndi makhalidwe opangidwa ndi anthu omwe gululi likuwona kuti ndiloyenera kwa amuna ndi akazi. Mwachidule, mawu oti "chimuna" ndi "chikazi" amagwiritsidwa ntchito kufotokoza zowoneka zokhudzana ndi jenda ndi machitidwe malinga ndi malingaliro omwe alipo. Aliyense muubwana amaphunzira matanthauzo a ukazi ndi umuna m'gulu linalake - momwe mkazi kapena mwamuna ayenera kuwoneka, ndi ntchito yotani yomwe angasankhe, ndi zina zotero. wekha ndi dziko lapansi.

2. Jenda m'maganizo - kukula kwa jenda

Kulira "ndi mtsikana" kapena "ndi mnyamata" pa kubadwa kwa mwana kungatengedwe ngati chiyambi cha zotsatira za chilengedwe. Kuyambira nthawi ino, mwanayo amaleredwa motsatira mfundo zachimuna ndi zachikazi zomwe zimavomerezedwa m'chilengedwe. Atsikana adzavala pinki, anyamata abuluu. Komabe, wakhanda salowerera ndale m'maganizo, zisonkhezero za chilengedwe zomwe zimazindikiritsa wakhanda ngati munthu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sizosankha. Malire a chizindikiritso amaikidwa mwachibadwa.

Madera Odziwitsa za Kugonana amayamba kupanga atangobadwa kumene, kuzikidwa, pakati pa zinthu zina, paziwonedwe. Ngakhale kuti aliyense amapanga malingaliro okhudza tanthauzo la kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi kuti agwiritse ntchito iyemwini, zitsanzozi zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Ngakhale kudzera mu masewera omwe timapereka ana, timawaphunzitsa maudindo ndi maubwenzi ena. Posewera ndi zidole kunyumba, atsikana amaphunzira kuti udindo wawo ndi wofunika kwambiri kusamalira ena. Kwa anyamata, masewera okhudzana ndi kufufuza malo kapena kuthetsa mavuto (masewera ankhondo, kusokoneza zinthu zazing'ono kapena zipangizo) amaperekedwa. Iwo amayenera kukhala pafupi zaka 5. chizindikiritso cha jenda kwenikweni ali ndi mawonekedwe. Ngati kale, pa siteji ya intrauterine, panali zosokoneza pakupanga kusiyana kwa kugonana, ndiye panthawi yovutayi amakula kapena kufooketsa. Pafupifupi zaka 5, ana amalowa mu siteji yotchedwa "developmental sexism", yomwe imadziwonetsera posewera ndi ana a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kusankha zidole, masewera omwe amaperekedwa kwa amuna ndi akazi. Kusiyanitsa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, komanso kutengera maudindo, kupita patsogolo mu maphunziro, kuyenera kuzama pang'onopang'ono mu unyamata, mpaka msinkhu. Amagwirizanitsidwa ndi magulu a makhalidwe ndi zolembedwa zamakhalidwe zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa amuna kapena akazi. Mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala wodziimira payekha, osati wotengeka maganizo, wolimba, wamphamvu, wopondereza. Makhalidwe okhudzana ndi ukazi pa chikhalidwe chathu ndi chikondi, chisamaliro, kumvera, kudzimana, kuthandiza, ndi chisamaliro. Mtsikanayo akuyembekezeka kutsata ndondomekoyi. Pali makhalidwe omwe amapezeka kwambiri mwa amuna kapena akazi, koma palibe khalidwe lamaganizo lomwe lingathe kuchitidwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Ndikosathekanso kudziwa bwino za sayansi zomwe "amakonda kukhala mwamuna" kapena "nthawi zambiri akazi". Kodi mwina sitiyenera kumangodzilankhula “mwamuna” kapena “akazi”? Ma stereotypes nthawi zonse amakhala osavuta, kuphatikiza jenda, nthawi zina kumangotsatira template kumabweretsa masautso ambiri. Akazi si gulu lofanana, monga amuna, aliyense ndi payekha ndipo ali ndi ufulu wotsatira njira yake. Azimayi ambiri sangagwirizane ndi mawu akuti cholinga chokha cha moyo wawo ndicho kusamalira ena. Sadzionanso kukhala ofooka kwambiri, osachita zinthu, kapena abwino kukhala paudindo wa utsogoleri, kulowa ndale, kapena kusankha okha moyo.

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Monsignor Anna Golan

Psychologist, chipatala sexologist.