Ma Lesbians - ndani ndi momwe anthu amawaonera

Ma Lesbians ndi akazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngakhale kukuchulukirachulukira kwa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, vuto la tsankho kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha lidakalipo. Azimayi aŵiri akuyenda atagwirana manja, kukumbatirana kapena kupsompsonana pagulu amakanganabe, ndipo nthaŵi zina amanyansidwa. Kodi ma lesbians ndi ndani ndipo zoona zake ndi zotani?

1. Ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi ndani

Chibwenzi ndi mkazi yemwe amakopeka ndi akazi ena. Ndi kugonana koyenera komwe amalingalira tsogolo lofanana. Amaona amuna ngati mabwenzi, osati ongofuna kukhala nawo mabwenzi.

Mawuwa amachokera ku dzina Chilumba cha Greek cha Lesboskumene wolemba ndakatulo Sappho ankakhala. Amadziwika kuti ndi amene amalambira komanso kupembedza akazi. Mu Chipolishi, mawu akuti Lesbian amavomerezedwa pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mosiyana ndi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mzimayi amene amagonana naye pachibwenzi ndi mkazi chabe amene ali ndi zilakolako, ali pa chibwenzi, kapena amakonda mkazi wina.

2. Akazi aakazi ndi anthu ammudzi

Komabe, malingaliro a gulu la anthu aku Poland pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi okhwima. Onse awiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha m'magulu amayambitsa mikangano yambiri, chifukwa anthu sazolowera kukondana pagulu ndi amuna awiri kapena akazi awiri. Nthawi zambiri ma lesbians amawonedwa ngati akazi ovulazidwa ndi amunakuti akuyesera kubweza kusowa kwa malingaliro mwa munthu yemwe ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Anthu amakhulupiriranso kuti akazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amawopa kukhala paubwenzi ndi mwamuna kuti asataye ulamuliro wake ndi kudziyimira pawokha. Anthu ambiri amakhulupiriranso zimenezo ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi makhalidwe ambiri achimuna. Maganizidwe amtunduwu ndi kuganiza mozama chifukwa mawu otere ndi malingaliro sangagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa onse ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Komabe, nthawi zina mumatha kuona kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amavala, kuchita kapena kumeta tsitsi lawo ngati amuna.

3. Ubale pakati pa mkazi ndi mkazi

Pamene amuna awiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha asankha kukhala limodzi, nthawi zambiri amagawana maudindo awo mosadziwa. Kuphatikiza pa kukhala mabwenzi ndi okonda, mmodzi wa iwo nthawi zambiri amatenga udindo wa mwamuna mu chiyanjano. Amakhala wochita zisankho wamkulu ndipo amatenganso ntchito zachimuna mosavuta, monga kukonza nyumba zazing'ono. Mnzake winayo, m'malo mwake, mwadala amakhala wogonjera kwambiri ndipo amawoneka wosalimba.

Inde, izi sizichitika m’maubwenzi onse ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Nthawi zambiri onse awiri amakhala ndi mtima wokonda kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina onse amakhala amanyazi. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha - mmodzi mwa amunawo akhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe achikazi, ndipo maonekedwe a onse awiri angakhale ofanana.

4. Ufulu wa Azimayi

Onse akazi okhaokha komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sangathe kukwatirana ku Poland. Komabe, kumadzulo kwa Ulaya, m’maiko ambiri, ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi wotheka. Mayikowa akuphatikizapo, mwachitsanzo, Netherlands, France, Spain ndi Belgium. Ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha saloledwanso kulera ana. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti anthu sakufuna kuvomereza kuti ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angathe kulera ana. Komabe, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amasangalalanso ndi ufulu umenewu ku Western Europe. Ma Lesbians amatha kukhala ndi mwana. Ku Poland, komabe, palibe zizindikiro za kusintha kwa malamulo posachedwapa pankhani ya ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kulera ana.

5. Zowona ndi nthano zokhuza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha

Mpaka posachedwapa, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunkaphatikizidwa pamndandanda wa matenda omwe anthu omwe amavomereza kuti amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakakamizidwa kulandira chithandizo. Komabe, patapita nthawi, pazifukwa zachipatala, chilakolako chogonana sichinatchulidwe pamndandanda wa matenda. Momwemonso, anthu ambiri m'deralo saganizira kuti akazi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akufunika chithandizo, koma amaganiziridwabe kugonana kupatuka.

Ndi nthano ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti kugonana kumachokera ku kuleredwa. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mtsikana amene amapezereredwa kapena kuvulazidwa ndi mwamuna panyumba amakhala chigololo atakula. Izi nthawi zambiri zimadzudzulidwa ndi akazi kapena akazi okhaokha. chiwerewere mwina chifukwa kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amaonedwa kupatuka kugonana. Komabe, okwatirana ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuphatikizapo amuna okhaokha kapena akazi okhaokha, amayesetsa kukhala ndi maubwenzi osangalala a mwamuna kapena mkazi mmodzi, monganso mmene amachitira amuna ndi akazi okhaokha.

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Nkhani idawunikiridwa ndi katswiri:

Katarzyna Bilnik-Baranska, MA

Katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi mphunzitsi wovomerezeka. Anamaliza maphunziro awo ku School of Coaches and Trainers TROP Group.