Fetish - ndi chiyani, mitundu yamatsenga. Kodi fetishist ndi chiyani?

Mwinamwake, aliyense wa ife ali ndi zokonda zina zomwe zimapangitsa kuyanjana kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri. Anthu ambiri amatcha zokonda izi kukhala fiti. M’malo mwake, feti sichisonkhezero cha kugonana, koma mkhalidwe wokhutitsidwa ndi kugonana. Mfiti ndi munthu amene amakonda kugonana mwachilendo. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene ali ndi zilakolako zoterezi akhoza kuchita chidwi ndi miyendo ya amayi, koma izi si lamulo. Wamatsenga adzakhala ndi zokonda zina ndi zinthu zina za kupembedza zomwe zidzamulimbikitsanso kugonana. Vuto limabwera pamene fetili imayambitsa orgasm kapena sakondweretsa wokondedwa. Nthawi zina, sing'anga ya munthu ikhoza kuvulaza wina, ndipo khalidweli liyenera kuthandizidwa.

1. Kodi feti ndi chiyani?

Mawu oti "fetish" amachokera ku liwu lachifalansa lakuti fétiche komanso kuchokera ku liwu la Chipwitikizi lakuti feitiço kutanthauza chithumwa kapena matsenga. Akatswiri ambiri amanena kuti mawu akuti fetish amagwirizana ndi mawu akuti facere, omwe amatanthauza kulenga chinachake.

Asayansi amatanthauzira feti ngati chinthu, chinthu china cha zochitika kapena chilengedwe chomwe chili chofunikira kuti munthu akhutitsidwe kwathunthu ndi kugonana mu fetishist. Nthenda sichisonkhezero chogonana, koma kusowa kwake sikungayambitse chilakolako chogonana, nthawi zina. palibe chisangalalo kapenanso kusowa mphamvu.

Mukhoza kulankhula za fetish ngati vuto pamene kusowa kwa chisonkhezero china sikukulolani kuti muzisangalala ndi kugonana ndi chiyanjano, i.e. chimakwirira chisangalalo chonse cha kugonana ndipo chimakhala chotengeka mtima, mwachitsanzo, pamene mwamuna akumana ndi chilakolako pamene wokondedwa wake wavala. masitonkeni.

Nthawi zambiri, mwamuna akhoza kuyatsidwa chifukwa chakuti mkazi wavala masitonkeni. Chisangalalo ichi chimayambitsidwa ndi chinthu cha zovala, osati maonekedwe a mkazi.

Vuto lina limabwera pamene nyanga imakondweretsa kwambiri munthu wina ndi kunyansidwa ndi wina.

2. Kodi fitishism ndi chiyani?

Fetishism ndi paraphilia, vuto la kugonana. Kungakhale pathological mapangidwe. Fetishism imaphatikizidwa m'gulu lazovuta zogonana monga chiwonetsero, pedophilia ndi sadomasochism.

Kodi fetishism ingadziwike liti? Malinga ndi bungwe la American Psychiatric Association, ngati chilakolako chogonana ndi chinthu china, monga mapazi, chimatenga nthawi yaitali kuposa miyezi 6, tikhoza kulankhula za fetishism. Zimapezeka pamene zimayambitsa kusokonezeka kwakukulu kapena kusokoneza kukwaniritsidwa kwa maudindo a anthu, akatswiri kapena a m'banja, ndipo kudzutsidwa ndi kukhutira kungathe kuchitika makamaka panthawi ya zochitika za fetishistic.

Nthenda imatha kukhala chiwalo cha thupi, chovala (monga zovala zamkati), komanso zida zolaula monga ma handcuffs kapena vibrator. Katswiriyu amafunikira kusonkhezeredwa kowonjezereka kuti chisonkhezero chake chogonana ndi kugonana chikhale chokhutiritsa. Kuti kugonana kukhale kopambana, wamatsenga amafunikira chinthu chake chomwe akufuna. Kukhalapo kwa bwenzi chabe sikokwanira.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku, asing'anga ambiri ndi amuna, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti palibe akazi pakati pa asing'anga.

Nthawi zambiri, fetishism ikhoza kukhala vuto lalikulu osati kwa fetishist yekha, komanso kwa okondedwa ake. Zimachitika kuti fetishist sakhalanso ndi chidwi ndi chilichonse chomwe sichikugwirizana ndi chifundo chake. Zikatero, muyenera kupeza chithandizo mwamsanga.

Nthawi zina fetishism imachitika limodzi ndi vuto lalikulu la umunthu kapena matenda amisala, ndiyeno kutaya chikhutiro chakugonana ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za mavuto aakulu a maganizo omwe amafunikira chithandizo choyenera.

3. Mitundu yamatsenga

Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana yamatsenga. Zokonda zodziwika bwino zogonana:

• feederism - fetishism yokhudzana ndi kunenepa kwambiri kwa munthu wina,
• podofilia - fetish phazi,
• autogynephilia - fetishist amadzutsidwa panthawi yomwe amadziona ngati mkazi.
• stigmatophilia - fetishist amakopeka ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zojambulajambula,
• alvinophilia - navel fetishism
• acrotomophilia, dysmorphophilia - thupi lopunduka kapena lopunduka la bwenzi ndi feti,
• phallophilia - fetish yokhudzana ndi kukula kwakukulu kwa mbolo,
• asphyxiophilia - fetishism yokhudzana ndi kudzipachika wekha kapena bwenzi panthawi yogonana,
• uchigawenga - matsenga amachokera pa kukangana ndi thupi la mlendo (mwachitsanzo, m'mabasi odzaza ndi anthu, masitima apamtunda kapena masitima apamtunda),
• nasolingus - fetishist amakwaniritsa zokhutiritsa zogonana pokhapokha atatha kuyamwa mphuno ya mnzake wogonana naye,
• knismolagnia - ticklishness ndi fetish
• stenolagnia - fetish yokhudzana ndi kumverera kokhutitsidwa pakugonana pogwira ntchito ndi minofu yosema,
• telefoni scatology - fetish pankhaniyi ndi kukambirana patelefoni,
• pubephilia - tsitsi la pubic ndi chinthu cha chikhumbo cha fetishist,
• catoptronophilia - fetishism yokhudzana ndi kukwaniritsa kukhutira pakugonana pakuwona chithunzi chagalasi;
• urophilia - mkodzo ndi chilakolako chogonana,
• coprophilia - chinthu cha chilakolako chogonana ndi ndowe,
• endophilia - kukwaniritsa kukhutitsidwa pakugonana ndikotheka kwa fetishist pogonana ndi okondedwa ovala,
• graviditophilia - chinthu cha chilakolako chogonana ndi mimba ya mayi wapakati,
• enemaphilia - kukhutira pakugonana kumatheka mothandizidwa ndi rectal enema,
• necrophilia - kugonana ndi munthu wakufa,
• agorafila - malo opezeka anthu ambiri ndi zolimbikitsa zogonana.

4. Zoyenera kuchita ngati sing'anga yanu yayamba kutengeka?

Zingawoneke kuti kukopa kugonana si chinthu choopsa, chifukwa aliyense wa ife amafunikira kusintha m'chipinda chogona. Malingana ngati zonse zichitidwa moyenera, palibe chodetsa nkhawa. Komabe, chilakolako chogonana chikakhala champhamvu kwambiri ndipo chimachitika nthawi iliyonse yogonana, winayo sangavomereze.

Pali nthawi zina pamene feti amatha kukhala ndi mawonekedwe a kutengeka maganizo. Zizolowezi zokhazikika komanso zachilendo, nthawi zambiri zimalepheretsa kugonana kwabwinobwino, mwachitsanzo, kupanga chikondi pamalo amodzi okha, mwachitsanzo, "kumbuyo", kapena kungomwa mowa wambiri.

Mitundu yamatsenga imathanso kukhala yowopsa. Makamaka ngati tikulimbana ndi mitundu yamatsenga monga sadomasochism, kunyonga, kudula mnzako kapena kudyetsa. Chithandizo cha fetishism nthawi zambiri chimakhala chautali ndipo chimafuna khama lalikulu kwa wodwalayo ndi mnzake.

Tiyeni tikumbukire kuti kupambana kugonana kokhutiritsa Izi, kumbali ina, zina mwazokonda zathu, komanso kugwiritsa ntchito chuma chamitundu yosiyanasiyana.

Anthu omwe azolowera kwambiri, ngakhale ophatikizidwa ku miyambo, sangasangalale mokwanira ndi mwayi waukulu woperekedwa ndi kugonana. Choncho, ngati munthu amatha kuyesa zinthu zatsopano nthawi ndi nthawi, ndiye kuti sali woipa kwambiri.

Munthawi yomwe kwa inu chibwenzi kapena kumamatira kwake mopambanitsa ku miyambo ina kuli vuto lalikulu, musayese “kum’chiritsa ndi chikondi chanu” poyamba. Lankhulani moona mtima choyamba, popanda mankhwala, mkwiyo kapena mkwiyo, ndiyeno funsani akatswiri. Zikatero, psychotherapy ndiyothandiza kwambiri. Pamene fetishism imayamba kuwononga ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu, onetsetsani kuti mukumane ndi katswiri, katswiri wa zachiwerewere. Izi zidzathandiza kuthetsa mavuto omwe fetishism imaphatikizapo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo ndi amisala amalimbananso ndi vuto la fetishism.

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