N’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina matsenga sagwira ntchito?

Munachita zamatsenga kapena mwambo ndipo palibe. Mukuganiza kuti zamatsenga ndi zabodza. Kapena mwina munalakwitsa?...Nthawi zambiri anthu amaganiza kuti ingochita zomwe maphikidwe anena ndipo adzapeza chilichonse chomwe akufuna. Komanso, mwambowo ukakhala wovuta kapena umafuna nthawi, kuleza mtima, ndi zinthu zovuta kuzipeza, amakhumudwa. Chifukwa m'moyo muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama, ndipo matsenga ayenera kukhala ophweka - dinani, ndipo ndizomwezo. Ayi! Matsenga ndi ovuta, ndipo zotsatira za mwambowu zimachokera ku khama, mphamvu, ndi chikhulupiriro.

Nazi zomwe zimayambitsa kulephera:

Zolakwika pamwambo

Onani ngati munachita bwino mwambowo. Mwina mudaphonya zambiri? Miyambo yamatsenga imafuna kulondola, ngakhale kulondola kwa pharmacy. Kanthu kakang'ono kalikonse kakufunika. Sizodabwitsa kuti chiwerengero chodziwika bwino cha zosakaniza chimagwiritsidwa ntchito, mwachitsanzo, madontho a 3, mbewu 7, ndi zina zotero. Maphikidwe opangidwa kwa zaka mazana ambiri sangasinthidwe mwakufuna kwake, munthu sangasinthe chosakaniza chimodzi ndi china chifukwa chakuti ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri kapena zovuta. Kupeza!! 

Zotsatira za mwambo zimatha kuwonongedwa ngakhale ndi zazing'ono monga njira yowunikira ndi kuzimitsa makandulo. Gwiritsani ntchito machesi okhawo pakuwunikira, osati chopepuka, ndikuzimitsa lawi lamoto ndi zala zanu kapena chipewa chapadera, palibe vuto kuwomba lawi. Izi zimataya mphamvu zomwe ziyenera kukugwirani ntchito.

Kusaika maganizo

Pochita mwambowu, mumayambitsa mphamvu zomwe zabisika mkati mwanu. Koma kuti muwadzutse ndi kuwagonjetsa, musasokonezedwe. N’chifukwa chake n’kofunika kwambiri kumukhazika pansi mtima n’kumuchotsera china chilichonse koma cholinga chimene mukufuna kukwaniritsa musanapitirize.

Cholinga ichi chiyenera kufotokozedwa momveka bwino momwe zingathere, kuyankhula mokweza kapena kulembedwa papepala, ndipo chofunika kwambiri chiwonetsedwe mwatsatanetsatane kuti pasakhale zolakwika, chifukwa mphamvu zimakonda kuchita motsatira mzere wosakanizidwa pang'ono. Pamene malingaliro anu akuyendayenda mukuwona, zikhoza kukhala kuti gawo lina laling'ono lidzakwaniritsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, mukapereka cholinga chanu cha "kutsatsa", mumaganizira momwe izi zimakwiyitsa munthu wa IT uyu, musadabwe ngati atakwezedwa m'malo mwa inu.

Mukuyembekezera zotsatira posachedwa

Matsenga sichakudya chofulumira komwe mumayitanitsa ndikuchipeza. Munthu amayenera kudikirira, nthawi zina motalika, kukulitsa cholinga mwa iyemwini, kuchilimbitsa ndi kutsimikizira tsiku ndi tsiku komanso osataya chiyembekezo. Mukamutaya, mwina simusamala. Mwachitsanzo, pamene mukuchita mwambo pa tsiku lanu lobadwa, tsiku loyamba la chaka, kapena pa tsiku la equinox ya masika, tsiku lomaliza likhoza kukhala chaka. Pa mwezi watsopano - nthawi zambiri mpaka mwezi, mpaka mwezi wotsatira. Mulimonsemo, ndiye muyenera kuwona zotsatira zoyamba.

Miyambo ina iyenera kubwerezedwa, ngakhale kangapo. Zili ngati kumwa mankhwala opha maantibayotiki - mlingo umodzi kapena kuposerapo sikokwanira, ndipo kuyimitsa mankhwala kumatha kupweteka. Chithandizo chokwanira chikufunika.

Inu mulibe chikhulupiriro

Kuchita bwino kwa miyambo kumagwirizana mwachindunji ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira, zimatengera ngati mukutsimikiza XNUMX% kuti mukufuna kuichita. Kukayikira konse kumalepheretsa kuyenda kwa mphamvu. Mutha kuloza, koma ngati mukuganiza kuti: "izi ndizachabe, matsenga sagwira ntchito," ndi bwino kugona nthawi yomweyo. Ngati simukhulupirira, mwambowo udzakhala chabe mawonekedwe opanda kanthu, chifukwa ndi malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu omwe amadzaza ndi mphamvu !!

Mwachitsanzo, mumachita spell yobereka chifukwa mumalota mwana, koma mudakali ndi mutu wanu: pambuyo pake, madokotala adanena kuti ndinalibe mwayi wa izo. Chabwino, ngati mukuganiza choncho, ndiye kuti si choncho.

Simunakonzekere!

Mwambo wamatsenga uli ngati mbewu. Pokhapokha m’dothi lachonde m’mene umamera ndi kubala zipatso. Dziko ili ndi moyo wanu. Ngati chipwirikiti, chisokonezo, mantha ndi malingaliro oyipa zikulamulira mmenemo, ngakhale matsenga abwino kwambiri sangasinthe moyo wanu. Ichi ndi choonadi chimene anthu ochepa amafuna kuvomereza.

Muyenera kuyamba ndi inu nokha ndikuchotsa zomwe zikukulepheretsani. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kuyambitsa chibwenzi, yesetsani kukhululukira anthu akale komanso kudzidalira kwambiri musanachite mwambo wanu wachikondi. Ngati mukufuna kukhala wolemera, ganizirani ngati ndalama ndi zoipa m'maganizo mwanu ndiyeno kuchita zambiri mwambo. 

Mudzakwaniritsa cholinga chanu mukasandulika kukhala munthu wokhoza kuchikwaniritsa. Ndiye mwambo udzakhala kokha kusindikiza ndondomeko, dontho la mwambi pamwamba pa i. Ndiyeno mudzadabwa momwe matsenga alili amphamvu.

Mumangodalira zamatsenga

Ndipo inu simuchita chirichonse. Matsenga si aulesi! Palibe chomwe chingachitike chokha ngati simuchita khama. Mwambowu ukhoza kukuthandizani, kuonjezera mwayi wanu wopambana, koma sichidzakuchitirani ubwino uliwonse. Palibe matsenga omwe angagwire ngati mutakhala ndi manja anu mutadutsana ndikudikirira chikondi, ntchito ndi chuma kuti zikutsanulireni ...

Kodi mukufuna kupambana lottery? Gulani tikiti imodzi. Kodi mumalakalaka ntchito yabwinoko? Tumizani CV yanu. Kodi mukuyang'ana chikondi? Pitani kwa anthu. Zomveka, chabwino? 

Kodi ichi ndi chosowa chenicheni? 

Ngati, komabe, mwambowu sunagwire ntchito, mwina zomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa ndi chithandizo chake sizomwe mudafuna, kapena sizingakubweretsereni chisangalalo. Mwina tsoka lili ndi zolinga zina za inu?… Mukufuna, mwachitsanzo, kupeza ntchito m'makampani kuti mupeze ndalama zabwino, koma kuyitanidwa kwanu m'moyo ndiko kukhala wojambula ndikupanga ntchito zopanga nthawi kapena kuthandiza ena. 

Kapena mwina mnzakeyo adachoka ndipo, ngakhale adachita zamatsenga, sanabwerere? Ndipo mwamwayi! Simungasangalalebe ndi iye. Ndipo pakapita nthawi, mumakumana ndi munthu yemwe amakukondani, ndipo simukanakumana naye mukadali pachibwenzi. Lero, zomwe zikuwoneka kwa inu tsoka, pakapita nthawi mutha kuweruza ngati chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chidakuchitikirani m'moyo wanu. 

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