Malangizo a Moyo: Malamulo 10 mwa 20 omwe muyenera kudziwa!

Moyo uli ndi malamulo akeake, choncho kuti mupindule nawo, muyenera kuwadziwa bwino. Popanda kudziwa malamulo, kukhalapo kuli ngati kuyendera popanda mapu - inde, n'zotheka, koma m'malo mwake, zochitika zimayendetsa zomwe zimachitika pambuyo pake. Mutha kukumana ndi zomwe mumafuna kuziwona, koma mwayi ndiwe kuti mudzaphonya zowona zambiri.

Pansipa pali malamulo 10 mwa 20 omwe ali padziko lapansi - ndi bukhuli mudzapeza zabwino kwambiri pamoyo wanu.

Mfundo yoyamba: Moyo umakhala ndi zokumana nazo

Moyo ndi wongokumana nazo. Mikhalidwe yonse m'moyo, yabwino ndi yoipa, ndi mikhalidwe yomwe iyenera kuchitika. Malingaliro onse omwe amatsagana nawo ndi ofunika kwambiri, choncho musadzikanize nokha. Khalani momasuka muzochitika zilizonse, chifukwa aliyense ayenera kulandiridwa ndikuvomerezedwa momwe alili. Pali lamulo loti kugwira manja ndi miyendo yanu kumayambitsa kupweteka kwambiri. ngati mukufuna kuphunzira momwe mungathanirane ndi chisokonezo m'moyo wanu,. Choncho, ziribe kanthu momwe zochitikazo zimakhala zoipa komanso zowawa, dutsani ndi mtendere wamaganizo - ndizochitika zina zomwe ziyenera kuwonjezeredwa ku zokumana nazo zomwe zimapanga moyo.

Lamulo 2: Palibe zolephera, koma mayesero okha

Tikayang'ana pa moyo wakuthupi, ndizosavuta kugwera mu kugwedezeka kochepa. Kenako timataya mtunda ndikuyang'ana moyo mwanjira ina. Koma tikalola kuti tibwerere mmbuyo, zimakhala kuti malingaliro amasintha - ndipo kwambiri. Kuwona kokulirapo kumakupatsani mwayi wowona dziko losiyana kotheratu. Ndipo umu ndi momwe timadziwira zolephera ndi zolakwika - timazitenga payekha, ndipo ndizokwanira kuziyang'ana kunja, kuvomereza kuti zili choncho, chifukwa ndi gawo la zochitika (onani lamulo la 1) ndikuwachitira monga iwo. mayeso. . Moyo wopanda malingaliro olephera ndi wodabwitsa! Kumbukirani kuti palibe zolephera, pali mayesero.

Lamulo 3: Thupi lanu ndi nyumba yanu

Pamene mzimu wanu utsikira ku dziko lapansi, umalandira thupi lanyama kukhalamo. Ndipotu, uwu ndi mtundu wina wa hotelo, njira zoyendera kapena "zovala" za moyo. Muziwakonda kapena ayi, mzimu wanu udzalowa m'malo mwa wina mukadzamwalira. Mutha kudandaula za thupi lanu ndikudzinyansa nokha, koma izi sizisintha chilichonse. Komabe, atalandira "zovala" zake, kumusonyeza ulemu ndi chikondi, zimakhala kuti zonse zimasintha. Thupi ndi lokumana ndi moyo ndikusonkhanitsa zikumbukiro, simuyenera kulikonda ndikudzizindikiritsa nalo. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikuwalemekeza, monganso nyumba yanu.

Lamulo 4: Phunziro limabwerezedwa mpaka mutaphunzira

Panthawi ina m'moyo wanu, mbiri ikhoza kubwereza yokha. Ikhoza kudziwonetsera pamlingo uliwonse, ngakhale mutu wa ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi nthawi zonse umakhala patsogolo pa kafukufukuyu. Amuna/akazi omwe mumakumana nawo panjira amakopeka ndi maubwenzi akale. Zonse zimayamba chimodzimodzi - mumafika pamene mungathe kuneneratu molondola modabwitsa pamene bwenzi lanu latsopano / chibwenzi chanu chatsopano chidzakuperekani. Ngati muwona dongosolo m'moyo wanu, zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuchita phunziro - ganizirani zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana kuti muthe kuchoka pa chitsanzocho.

Chilamulo 5: Ndife magalasi 

Tili ndi zonse zomwe timawona mwa ena. Sitingathe kuzindikira makhalidwe ena kuposa omwe timawadziwa kuchokera muzochitika zathu. Sitikuwawona chifukwa sitiwadziwa, ndiye sitilembetsa.

Munthu aliyense ndi kusinkhasinkha kwathu. Zonse zomwe zimakukwiyitsani mwa munthu wina zimakukwiyitsani mwa inu nokha. Kudana ndi kukonda makhalidwe a munthu payekha ndiko kudzida ndi kudzikonda. Ngakhale mutazikana poyamba, zimakhalapobe kwa inu, kaya mukuvomereza kapena ayi. Ndikoyenera kudziwa izi ndikuyimilira kwakanthawi pomwe malingaliro athu amasanduka lalanje: mphindi, ndingachite bwanji izi?

Lamulo 6: Mumakhala ndi zomwe mukufuna

Moyo ndi wodabwitsa chifukwa nthawi zonse umatipatsa zida zonse zofunika ndi malangizo kuti tithane ndi moyo womwe tilimo. Vuto ndilakuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuwona zosankha ndi zotuluka mwadzidzidzi. Mukadzilola kuti mukhale opanda thandizo, mantha ndi kukhumudwa zikakulamulirani, mulibe njira yopezera yankho - mumadzitsekera kutali ndi zizindikiro zonse za tsoka. Komabe, mukamapuma mozama ndikuyang'ana pozungulira, mudzapeza kuti yankho lili pafupi ndi ngodya. Palibe mantha! Mtendere wokha ungatipulumutse. Ndikufunanso kuwonjezera kuti izi zimayendera limodzi ndi mtunda.

Lamulo 7: Kuti mupeze chikondi chenicheni, muyenera kukhala ndi chikondi mkati mwanu.

Ngati mulibe chikondi, simudziwa momwe mungachisamalire komanso momwe mungachisonyezere. Chikondi chenicheni chimafunikira maziko a kudzikonda ndi kukonda dziko lapansi. Ngati simudzikonda, simumva chikondi mwa inu nokha ndipo simukonda moyo, ndiye kuti chikondi chenicheni chidzadutsa - chidzadikira kamphindi mpaka mutadziwa chomwe chikondi chiri.

Lamulo 8: Kungodandaula zomwe mungathe kuzilamulira

Omwe mulibe chikoka pa - musadandaule! Makamaka chifukwa simuchita chilichonse chokhudza izi, koma kungotaya mphamvu zomwe zitha kulunjika ku chinthu china chosiyana. Mukamadandaula ndi zinthu zomwe mumazilamulira, samalaninso - kudandaula, kudandaula ndi kutaya mtima ndi zinthu zoipa kwambiri zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zanu zosungiramo mphamvu. Mutsogolereni kuchitapo kanthu ndi kuthetsa mavuto.

Lamulo 9: Ufulu Wosankha

Tili ndi ufulu wakudzisankhira, komabe ife tokha timagwera m'zipinda za golide zomwe zakonzedwa kwa ife ndi machitidwe, anthu ena, zoyembekeza za anthu kapena zolephera pamutu mwathu. Tikayamba kuzindikira mfundo yofunika imeneyi ya moyo padziko lapansi, zimakhala kuti mafunso ambiri osokonekera omwe tazolowera, tikhoza kukana kuvomereza. Kuchepetsa ufulu wanu kapena ufulu wa munthu wina ndikuphwanya malamulo a masewerawa.

Lamulo 10: Tsoka

Asanatsike padziko lapansi, Mzimuyo adapanga dongosolo lachitukuko cha uzimu, lomwe likufuna kukhazikitsa m'moyo uno. Podziwa kuchenjera kwake, kuwonjezera pa ndondomeko yatsatanetsatane, panalinso ndondomeko yowonongeka ndi ndondomeko yochepa ngati chikhumbo cha ndondomekoyo chinaposa wolemba wake. Timakonda kulankhula za tsoka ili, ndipo tsoka limadziwonetsera kuti m'miyoyo yathu anthu amawonekera (omwe, mwa njira, tidagwirizana nawo m'moyo uno) ndi zochitika, ndipo nthawi zambiri ngakhale mndandanda wa zochitika ndi ngozi. . kuti tili ku malo amodzi osati kwina. Kupyolera mu izi, tikhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kuphunzira maphunziro, ndi kulinganiza mphamvu zomwe tili nazo mu thupi lakale. Tsoka ndi khadi m'manja mwanu, ndi mwayi ndi luso (otchedwa zida). Zili ndi inu kuti mulole kuti mutengeke ndi ulendowu, tsatirani njira yodziwika bwino, kapena kumenya khadi mu mpira wolimba ndikuponyera kumbuyo kwanu. Chabwino ... muli ndi ufulu wosankha.

Gawo lachiwiri lili pano:

Nadine Lu

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