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Zolemba za m’Chiarabu zimatiphunzitsa kuti mwamuna aliyense amapatsidwa mtundu winawake wa chida. Chizindikiro ichi chimanena osati za umunthu wake, komanso kuti ali kunja kwa chitseko chogona. Yang'anani!

Vuto ndi chiyani: amakayikira luso lake - ali ndi zovuta zambiri, ngakhale poyang'ana poyamba zingawoneke kuti siziyenera kukhala; sakhulupirira mwa iye yekha, chifukwa chake sadzakhala woyamba kupita kwa mkazi ndi mwayi woti adziwe kapena kuyanjana kwambiri; n'zosavuta kumukankhira kutali, kagulu kakang'ono kakang'ono kamene kamamupangitsa kuti akhumudwe komanso kukhumudwa - koma, mwamwayi, maubwenzi akale akhoza kubwezeretsedwa mwamsanga;

wokonda - kukhala paubwenzi, wokhoza kudzipereka pafupifupi chirichonse chifukwa cha mbali inayo; ngati akonda, ndiye wopanda kukumbukira; iye sali wokonda wokonda, komanso woteteza wolimba mtima, simungadandaule za chirichonse ndi iye, ngakhale mu moyo wamba nthawi zina amapereka chithunzi cha gag.

Ndi wokonda bwanji: amakonda nthawi yokhala yekha ndi mnzake, ndiye amakhala wotanganidwa ndi malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake, palibe chomwe chingamugwetse kapena kumusokoneza;

maganizo ndi ofunika kwa iye, choncho amamusamalira; nsalu zoyera ndi zonunkhira, makandulo onunkhira, nyimbo zosasunthika - zinthu zonsezi m'dziko lake nthawi zambiri zimakhala zapakati;

nthawi zambiri pabedi amapereka mwayi kwa mnzake, amakonda kudabwa, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri sakonda zodabwitsa; izi sizikutanthauza, komabe, kuti iye samasamala za mlingo wa chisangalalo cha mkazi.

Momwe mungawunikire: pakampani yake munthu ayenera kuwala ndi malingaliro, amakonda izi mwa mkazi; fotokozerani nkhani zosiyanasiyana za moyo wanu kapena kugawana naye nkhani zomwe mudamva; pokambirana naye, musawope kufotokoza maganizo anu, mudzamukondweretsa ndi izi, mudzawonetsa kuti si wongozindikira chabe;

ndithudi, dzisamalireni nokha, koma izi mwina sizidabwitsa aliyense, popeza maonekedwe ndi ofunika kwa amuna ambiri; kumbali ina - choyipa ndi chiyani, ndi bwino ngati mkazi adzisamalira yekha, ngakhale adzisamalira yekha.