Masitepe 5 opita ku chisangalalo

 Chifukwa inde: mtsikana amene adalembedwa ntchito miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mutalandira kukwezedwa, koma simutero. Kapena munali ndi lingaliro labwino kwambiri, koma mudatayabe mpikisanowo. Ichi ndi tsogolo! Ndipo mukuyenera kukhala osangalala bwanji?Eya, mwina vuto siliri mdera lanu, koma mwa inu? Tsoka ilo, ochita kafukufuku ali ndi umboni wakuti nthawi zambiri timadziponya pamapazi athu. Ndipo iwo akhoza kuchita izi:

Kodi mukufuna kusintha dziko lozungulira inu ndikumverera kukwaniritsidwa, okondwa? Yambani ndi inu nokha. magalimoto malamulo asanu ofunikira agolide, zimenezo zidzakupangitsani kukonda moyo kosatha ndi kukupatsani chiyembekezo.

1. Yembekezerani zabwino zonse

Chimwemwe chikhoza kukhala ulosi wongodzikwaniritsa, ndipo anthu amene amachiyembekezera amakhala okhoza kuchikwaniritsa kusiyana ndi amene akukhala mopanda chiyembekezo. Monga nthabwala zodziwika bwino: pali ena amene amadziwa kuti chinachake n'chosatheka, kotero iwo samachifika nkomwe, ndipo pali ena amene sadziwa ndipo amangochichita. Khulupirirani zolinga zanu, khalani ndi chiyembekezo, yesetsani kuti mukwaniritse.

2. Khalani katswiri pantchito yanu

Kuphatikiza zolimbikitsa ndi chidziwitso choyenera ndi luso zidzakutengerani ku gawo lina la kupambana kwa akatswiri. Chimwemwe chimafunika kuthandizidwa, ndipo amene akuyembekezera kuti chibwere chokha, ngakhale kuti sakuika ndalama kuti apambane, nthawi zambiri amadikirira Godot, choncho anapinda manja awo ndikuyamba kuphunzira. Muli ndi intaneti, mabuku, maphunziro, masemina ndi maphunziro. Onani zomwe mukudziwa, chifukwa ngakhale zingawoneke ngati mukuphunzira zinthu zomwe palibe amene akukupemphani kuti muchite pakadali pano, kudziwa zinsinsi za gawo lanu kumatha kukulozerani njira zatsopano zopambana.

3. Sinthani chilankhulo chanu

Anthu mosadziwa amakhudzidwa ndi khalidwe lanu. Ngati muwonetsa mphamvu zabwino ndi kumasuka, adzatha kukudziwani bwino ndipo mwina adzakutsegulirani mwayi watsopano. manja mu mawonekedwe achitetezo.

4. Osagwera m'chizoloŵezi

Ngakhale moyo mkati mwa chimango chokhazikika umawoneka wotetezeka komanso womasuka, malingaliro amakhazikika pakapita nthawi.Yang'anani zochitika zatsopano, lankhulani ndi alendo, sinthani zizolowezi zanu. Ngati mumapita kutchuthi komweko chaka chilichonse, pitani kwinakwake. Ngati nthawi zonse mumavala zodzikongoletsera zomwezo, valani chinthu chosiyana kwambiri. Ngati mudya kadzutsa kaye, kenako kumwa khofi wake, sinthani dongosololi. inu.

5. Musanyalanyaze olumikizana nawo ndipo musaphonye mwayi.

Mwayi ndi wosavuta kuunyalanyaza ndipo nthawi zambiri sitifuna kuugwiritsa ntchito. Mukalandira kuyitanidwa kuphwando, musalole kuti sofa yabwino ikulepheretseni, koma lembani chiwonetsero chomwe mumakonda ndikuchiwonera pambuyo pake - sichidzathawa, ndipo mwayi wanu wachimwemwe ukhoza kutha. Komanso, kumbukirani kuti anthu ena nthawi zambiri amakhala chinsinsi cha kupambana, choncho musanyalanyaze kucheza ndi anzanu, achikulire ndi atsopano. Ngakhale ngati mwayi subwera, anzanu adzakuthandizani kukhala ndi chiyembekezo komanso chidaliro.

Chikumbutso cha Zen

Bamboyo adapita kwa Master ndikumufunsa kuti:

"N'chifukwa chiyani aliyense pano ali wokondwa, koma ine ayi?"

“Chifukwa aphunzira kuona zabwino ndi kukongola kulikonse,” Master anayankha.

"Ndiye bwanji sindikuwona zabwino ndi kukongola kulikonse?"

"Chifukwa sungathe kuwona kunja kwa iwe zomwe sukuwona mwa iwe.Text: Maya Kotecka