Zifukwa 10 Zomwe Anthu Amadzimva Otaika (ndi Njira Zopezera Njira Yanu)

Anthu ambiri m’dziko lodabwitsali amasochera m’miyoyo yawo. Amakhala m’moyo watsiku ndi tsiku popanda kudzidziŵa kuti iwo ndani kapena kumene akupita, amakayikiranso ngati moyo wawo uli ndi cholinga kapena tanthauzo. Kodi inunso mwadzifunsapo ena mwa mafunso amenewa?

Pamene dziko likuyesera kutikokera m'njira zambiri nthawi imodzi, zokhudzana ndi ndalama, ntchito zapakhomo, ntchito ndi zina zonse zomwe sizili zofunika kwambiri, tikhoza kuyamba kumva kuti tasweka, kutenthedwa, ndipo pamapeto pake, tatayika kwathunthu. Planet Earth imatitumikira ife makamaka ngati malo oti tikule ndi kuphunzira, koma mayesero ndi zovuta zomwe timakumana nazo nthawi zina zimakhala zazikulu. Aliyense wa ife adakhalapo ndi nthawi yomwe sitinkadziwa kolowera komanso momwe tingapezere njira yoyenera. Koma ngati tiyang’ana mozama pang’ono, ngakhale m’nthaŵi zamdima ndi zosungulumwa zino, tingathe kuchotsa mfundo zofunika.

Dziwani zifukwa 10 zapamwamba zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu amve kuti atayika. Zitha kubweretsa kumveka bwino ndipo mwina kukuthandizani kubwereranso kwa inu nokha, kumtima kwanu, ndi njira yofunika kwambiri m'moyo.

1. Mantha amalamulira miyoyo yathu

Chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zingatipangitse kusokonezeka ndi kukhumudwa ndi mantha. Mantha akuwoneka kuti akulamulira gawo lililonse la moyo wathu, ndipo m'kupita kwa nthawi, mitima yathu imayamba kutseka chifukwa cha mantha omwe akukulirakulira. Pokhala ndi nkhawa kumbali zonse, kupanga zosankha zambiri nthawi iliyonse kumatipangitsa kumva kukhala omvetsa chisoni komanso opereŵera. Ngakhale kuti mantha ndi chikondi ndizofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu, mantha ambiri ndi mantha ndizosayenera kukhalira limodzi ndi kugwira ntchito.

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2. Malingaliro a anthu ena amakhudza zosankha zathu

Chinsinsi cha kutayika kwa moyo ndikulola anthu ena kuti azilamulira malamulo a moyo wathu ndikuyiwala zokhumba zofunika ndi maloto. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti palibe amene angathe kutichitira homuweki, kubwezeretsa karma yathu, kapena kukwaniritsa cholinga cha moyo wathu.

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3. Sititsatira nzeru zathu.

Tikamasankha zochita pa moyo wathu, zimachitika kuti ambirife timangomvera maganizo athu. Popanga chisankho, timayiwala kuti malingaliro ndi malingaliro amakhala ndi mayankho ambiri, nthawi zambiri ndendende omwe timawafuna. Choncho ngati takhala nthawi yaitali kwambiri m’dziko lolamuliridwa ndi maganizo ambiri, tiyenera kusintha khalidweli ndi kuyang’ana mkati mwathu kuti tipeze njira yoyenera.

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4. Timadzizinga ndi anthu olakwika.

Kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi anthu opanda pake ndi chifukwa chimodzi chomwe tingamve kuti tatayika, makamaka pamene tikufuna kukula. Pamene titsagana ndi anthu amene nthaŵi zonse amadandaula, kuimba mlandu ena chifukwa cha zolephera zawo ndi kudzimana okha, timakakamira m’kunjenjemera komweko komweko. Anthu otere amawonekera mwa ife kukayikira ndi mantha ambiri, zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri khalidwe lathu.

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5. Timakhazikika ku zakale.

Kukumbukira n’kosangalatsa, makamaka tikakhala ndi zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Tsoka ilo, tikukhala m'mbuyomu, timayiwala za nthawi yamakono. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti kusakhutira kulikonse kungakonzedwe pakali pano. Choncho, chimene tiyenera kuchita ndi kusintha panopa ndi kukhala bwino. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti zakale zimakhala ndi zochitika zomwe sitingathe kuzisintha mwanjira iliyonse.

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6. Sitiwononga nthawi m’chilengedwe.

Kodi chilengedwe chidzatikakamiza bwanji kupeza njira yoyenera? Podzipatula kwa Amayi Nature, timadzilekanitsa tokha, chifukwa ndife mbali ya dziko lino. Mphindi iliyonse yokhala ndi zomera ndi zinyama imatipangitsa kukhala osangalala, odekha, ndipo timabwerera kunyumba tili ndi chiyembekezo. Tikakhala m'chilengedwe, tidzalumikizananso ndi moyo wathu wonse ndikubweretsa mgwirizano uwu m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.

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7. Simulola kuti chilengedwe chibwere kwa inu.

Tikamayesetsa kulamulira mbali iliyonse ya moyo wathu, sitilola kuti chilengedwe chizitigwirira ntchito. Iye amadziwa zimene tiyenera kuchita, choncho nthawi zina ndi bwino kumuyamikira ndi kumupatsa mphamvu. Kupyolera mu izi, udzaunikira moyo wathu, utizindikiritsa chimene mdima uli, ndi kutitsogolera pa njira yolondola.

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8. Sitinatsegule chandamale

Sikuti aliyense angathe kumvetsetsa nthawi yomweyo chifukwa chake adabwera padziko lapansi, kapena sangakhulupirire konse kuti moyo wake uli ndi cholinga. Komabe, ngati tiona kuti tikufunitsitsa kuchita zinthu zimene sizikugwirizana ndi zimene timachita, sitidzazengereza. Sitiyenera kudziwa nthawi yomweyo dongosolo lenileni la moyo wathu kuti timve ngati munthu wathunthu. Kuchita zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe mtima wathu umatiuza ndi umboni wakuti tikudzuka kale ndipo pang'onopang'ono tikuyamba kukwaniritsa ntchito yathu padziko lapansi.

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9. Timakhala ndi maganizo oipa.

Anthu ambiri sangathe kudzikonda, ndipo nthawi zambiri amanyansidwa ndi iwo eni chifukwa cha mawonekedwe osayenera kapena mawonekedwe awo. Moyo padziko lapansi ndi mphatso, aliyense wa ife analengedwa ndi chikondi, choncho tiyenera kudzilemekeza ndi kudzivomereza tokha. Tabwera kudzakwaniritsa cholinga chaumulungu ndikupeza ziwalo zonse za ife tokha zomwe tataya panjira. Mwa kuchita zimenezi tisanafike ku dziko looneka, tonsefe timafunika kuti tizilemekezedwa kwambiri ndi kutikonda.

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10. Timakhala ndi zikhulupiriro za ena.

Anthu ambiri amakhala moyo wawo motsogozedwa ndi zikhulupiriro za ena. Iwo alibe lingaliro la iwo eni kapena lingaliro la ufulu wakudzisankhira ndi wodzilamulira. Amaona kuti maganizo a anthu ndi ofunika kwambiri ndipo amawagwiritsa ntchito pamoyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa chakuti mawu a m’banja, anzawo kapena aphunzitsi ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa iwo. Sitiyenera kukhulupirira mosazindikira zimene ena akunena mpaka ifeyo tazimva.

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Aniela Frank